HOW TO HANDLE MALICE & FIGHT IN MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP:
If husband and wife don't quarrel or if husband and wife have never quarreled before, then it means that they aren't telling each other the truth, some thing is wrong ...
If two people in relationship have never quarreled with each other before, it means they are deceiving each other.
What am trying to say is that two couples must have misunderstanding or quarrel.
It is normal and natural,
But what is not normal is MALICE.
I have seen cases where a husband and his wife don't greet each other for one week and more yet they are living in the same house.
I have seen cases where husband and wife don't talk to each other for many days because of a small quarrel that happened.
I have also seen cases where a man refused to eat his wife's food because his wife quarreled with him. Even some low mentality men will be too childish and sent their legally married wives back to her parents which I really don't understand what the poor parents of their wives have got to do with their little problems. Please be man enough to settle your problems with your wives without involving her parents or outsiders otherwise stay single ...
Two people in relationship will not call each other on phone for many weeks or more just because of one little misunderstanding.
Why?
Because of ego.
Nobody wants to be the first to apologize.
This is very bad.
Malice destroys marriage and relationship.
When both of you had a quarrel, do not keep the anger for more than 24 hours.
If you did not apologize, be the first to say "am sorry" even if you are not at fault.
Just for the sake of peace.
Two wrongs cannot make a right.
Save your marriage and relationship.
Any man who refuses to eat his wife's food because of a quarrel is a boy.
The man is not matured at all. Malice is childish.
Matured people quarrel and settle their problems and play together again the same day.
A woman who can't apologize even when she is right is malice, a woman who can't endure the stupidity of a man should stay back from marriage, keep your stubbornness at your father's house before you say YES to that young man, marriage is for mature people, men and women please learn how to tell your husband or wife sorry!
Pride, bad character/Attitude have sent a lot of women to their father's compound.
Woman be submissive to your man, it better for a woman to stay single than divorce, a divorce woman doesn't have a say in a public, it a shameful thing to be divorce,
Save your marriage.
Save your relationship
Peace, love, happiness, mutual respect and understanding are what we need to build responsible decent marriage and family.
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